What to do?
Bow pulpit designs! Seems the more you start thinking about something, the more you want to change it. This design, based on the the "version 2" of the Westsail 42 bow pulpit design. Changes include accommodations for expected windlass and anchor setups.
A PDF here, also listed on the sidebar. Just the lower frame is shown.
Good news is no apparent leaks in the hull/deck joint finished last weekend,